Utterly Devastated

Amber and I found out today that it is never easy delivering bad news.  Today was the first time that we had to break the news to Kaitlyn that a family member had passed away.

I knew something was wrong when Amber called me at 7:23 this morning.  When I saw that she was calling as Kaitlyn and I were walking out the door, I figured/feared that she had gotten into an accident or something.  I was way off.  I could tell by her voice that it was something way worse than an accident.  Amber let me know that her granny, Kaitlyn’s great granny passed away this morning.

We agreed that there was no way that we were going to let Kaitlyn know before school, so I did my best to not let on that there was something wrong.

Unfortunately, Amber had the task of telling Kaitlyn the news.  It was as bad as we feared it would be.  Kaitlyn was crushed.  As I write this, she is still a mess.

Kaitlyn had become very fond of her great granny over the last several years.  She loved going to visit her and staying in her big house on the lake, and just spending time with her.  They would talk about how Kaitlyn was doing in school, what granny was up to, politics, and so much more; it was quite fascinating to sit back and listen to an octogenarian and an elementary school student talk politics as good or better than most “experts” on TV.

Kaitlyn lost a wonderful great granny today, and the world lost a caring, often stubborn, always thoughtful woman today.  There will be a void for Kaitlyn for quite some time, but Amber and I will make sure to ensure that she thinks about of the great times the two of them had together.

Amber and I appreciate the outpouring of support via texts and phone calls, and that one very special delivery of flowers.  As Kaitlyn works through her emotions, we are so grateful that we have so many friends and family we can count on to be there for us.

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  1. […] also brought heartbreak as Kaitlyn’s great grandmother passed away.  She struggled to come to grips with her passing, and still gets down on occasion when she thinks […]

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